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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

I am SO mad!!

My biological dad called my grandmother around Christmas to get my information so that he could put me as the beneficiary on his life insurance plan, he also got my cousins information and told her that he was going to put her so she and I could share it, guess what?  He didn't list me or my cousin, he listed one of his other nieces who is only 16 or 17 and she can't get it until she is 21.  So he needs to be buried and he needs a headstone, but there is no money to pay for it.  I understand why he didn't put me, I told him I wanted nothing to do with him, it still hurts and makes me really angry for a lot of reasons, mostly I'm angry with myself, but then part of me feels like why did he list me for everything else, but not for the one thing that mattered most, how did he expect me to plan his funeral with no way to pay for it??  Luckily the county paid for his cremation.... 

6 comments:

Kristina P. said...

Well, that is a crappy situation. :(

Just me and my girls said...

Sorry Girlie........Love ya.

Sell...Party Of 4 said...

I didn't know that when you cremated someone that you buried them and needed a headstone...I thought that they are scattered the ashes or put them in a vase on the fireplace?

Tiffany said...

Yeah, me too Von..... But his brother and sister want him buried.

Kristy said...

I say if they want him buried, then maybe they should all start pitching in money and get it done, you cant let it fall on you T. You have done what you can and dont need the stress right now. You have your little family to take care of.

Derek-Jenny-Kaitlynd-Ethan-Dylan said...

Totally...they should worry about it...if that is what they want.

You need to get out of this mess that is clearly NOT yours! Do not feel guilty for not taking care of the "dad" that did not take care of you. (I don't mean to sound jerky...but seriously...Heavenly Father is the only one that can sort out this mess).
You have felt sad for those that lost him...you have been gracious and attend events for him....ENOUGH.
LOVE YOU!